Being the groom does bring a whole lot of excitement and emotions, especially now that the wedding day is approaching. Obviously, if you’d ask your parents or grandparents, it is almost certain that they didn’t really have a groom wedding speech too frequently. This doesn’t mean that they are out of topic but it does mean that they aren’t necessarily accustomed to hearing about a multitude of different wedding speeches. Thus, you will need some free time, dedication, ideas and a cup of coffee or inspiration and then things are going to work well.
So, let us focus on the actual ideas of the groom speech presentation. The speech can be presented in various styles, using various methods of presentations and approaching many topics of discussion. What you choose to talk about is completely your choice, and nobody will ever tell you not to talk about those things or to change this or that. However, you must know that some rules cannot be nullified, thus it means that you can’t truly escape rules.
One of the first rules is that wedding speeches have a healthy and probably standardized structure, which must be respected with each occasion. This structure must be followed, but after all it is not a problem, since the actual structure helps you achieve your goals in coming up with a great speech, which is indeed of very high quality.
Groom’s Speech Structure elements: introduction
The introduction of the groom wedding speech is very important. If you manage to have a good introduction, then you capture the guests’ attention and then it is very easy for you to deliver the speech in a manner that people are interested and they also listen to you.
In the introduction, you should mention that everyone who came is welcome and that you are all happy to see them. Obviously, many of the guests who came had invested serious efforts for their coming, so you should really appreciate it.
The problem is, that the people who miss a good wedding speech introduction will also miss the following parts of the speech as well. Obviously, as the groom, your speech is of a bigger influence. Thus, a groom speech won’t be as ignored as another one, but that doesn’t mean that your attention can be divided or not focused on the introduction. Even more, as the groom, you must make sure that you captured everyone’s attention. More